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SillyWizard01
2024-10-16 03:05:57 UTC hey i just have a question why was my comment flagged on athens post telling them to leave after they posted about boku no pico im just curious why did htat comment get flagged and not the actual post ??
boku no pico is literally a shota (young child) anime movie ????
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Getting flagged for telling a cp enjoyer to leave is absolutely and atrociously wild
im assuming they didnt know what boku no pico was and/or got it mixed up with boku no hero (which is my hero academia) since hero and pico both end with o, sound similar and are both 4 letters
but still, thats like not something you can juts say “oh oops” for
Watch me
‘ Oh Oops ‘
No but I didn’t know so I flagged it, you mean to tell me I can’t apologise for not knowing the context and flagging a post telling a guy to leave because he asked about an anime? I know now but of course I didn’t at the time, sorry.
It’s not as one-sided as you all think, I’m just trying to make the site a better place however and whenever I can.
it was you?
im sorry lemon please disregard this post please disregard please disregard please disregard please disregard please ignore please ignore im sorry 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
in all seriousness, yeah i think i was a little arrogant to say you cant apologize for that, i had assumed it was one of the mods that has a target on my back and not you lemon
i had figured though in the end it was just a mix-up with what it was and such, so yeah this post is very much disregard anyways
Yeah, to be fair I don’t think anyone particularly has a target on your back, I know who you might be referring to but I think it’s just bad history between you two plus a misunderstanding, I don’t want to impede too much but when you’re in a position to basically control what posts people see and not there’s bound to be issues arise from that kind of power.
Like I said though I don’t want to impede, it’s your business I just want to see those tensions eased a bit if possible.
anyways
yeah this post was generally just a big like unintentional kerfuffle so im sorry about that 🙏
TL:DR?: Just read lemon’s post.
The incident we had was three months ago, and I’ve barely been active since then. Yet, you still seem to think there’s a target on your back because of that one event. I hope you read this message not with a hostile tone or anything like that, but as a genuine effort to improve things here. If you’re carrying around the idea that I have a personal vendetta against you after all this time, it might be worth asking yourself if that’s really the case or if it’s something you’re projecting. Holding onto this belief could be causing you to act differently, even when there’s no real reason to. Sometimes, we latch onto an idea so tightly that it starts to shape our actions, even if it’s not based in reality anymore. It might be time to step back and reconsider what’s really going on. The issue might not be as personal as you think, and you could be letting an old conflict affect how you see things now.
Personally, I can handle people thinking that everything they disagree with is somehow moderated by me if that makes them feel better. But at the end of the day, that mindset just makes this place more toxic. Blaming someone for things they aren’t even involved in doesn’t solve anything. It just drags out conflict and makes it harder for everyone to move on. If we’re constantly looking for a scapegoat, then we’re only feeding into negativity and division. It’s time to consider if that’s really what you want, or if there’s a better way to approach things.
And this isn’t just for you. this is an opportunity to address the general issues within the community. We all love to do things like “OMG Noderx?!!” whenever something goes wrong/is dodgy, but this habit of pointing fingers or fixating on one person when things don’t go our way is harmful.
This improvement starts with all of us.
Edit: Apologies, Sir Lemon! I accidentally replied to your comment. Please forgive me!
…dude im not reading all of that lmao
Do as you as please.
Basically just let bygones be bygones, part of the past’s events may not have been intended as a means to target you and it’s just a matter of interpretation and that the sites people can sometimes vent their own personal problems, feelings, emotions into their actions.
This is just what I’ve interpreted from Challas’ post which in any case means we have the opportunity to just let the past be the past and move on basically.
i will KILL bygones (okay. thanks lemon!)
It’s probably not my place to say any of that, but you’re welcome anyway
The mod probably didn’t know what it was, maybe should’ve looked to see what it was but I don’t think the flag was out of malicious intent
yeah, most likely
flagged for language
Oh boy, I guess “please” is a word of the devil now.
Don’t disrespect me Chevy like I didn’t stand by you and your work on countless occasions. Don’t be hopping on the bandwagon of disrespecting mods because people get told to not be so critical ( I know why they were now but still ) and they don’t like it.
We’re not always making the right call but we try and at least I’m willing to take accountability for it and apologise. I know you’re joking and I am too but just be aware that I’m just trying my best.
Wait no I wasn’t insulting you I was making a shitty joke
I never meant to insult anyone
Clearly I need to stop trying to make jokes because everyone time I do, something bad happens
I’m sorry lemon I didn’t mean to insult you
just become funny
WELL THATS KIND OF HARD WHEN IDFK HOW
Dammit
This feels like when I accidentally step on a cats tail and don’t know how to tell it im sorry
It’s not that deep don’t worry