Good day.

I just want to put this thought here since it’s been on my mind a lot.
Me and a friend were debating about how relationships nowadays feel like a task more than to fill in something that is a hole.
He argued I am exaggerating simply because last relation I had was a while ago, and it didn’t end up.
I said I am not arguing women are bad, or we men should work out, get up at ridiculous time, or be one of these sigma bullshit people believe in. Simply I am arguing that what once was doesn’t necessary give you what you need. I always see on social media, read blogs about getting with someone makes you happy and they convey the meaning it’s the best thing.

When I realized that I chased something that was meant for someone else, it’s like someone who talks about interest and you get in it because you think you’ll get same joy, but it doesn’t.

I am a man of god, and I believe happiness doesn’t stem from relationships, but from the success that we people do. Imagine for example doing something and you’re not good at it, you’ll give up after 3 tries, but after a while you get good at it, and it develops slowly into a skill, or better yet, a hobby.

That is off topic, but what do you think? do you think I am wrong and he’s right? do you think the income of happiness come from being with someone you’re happy with? write me your thoughts. 😅😅