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Fedora
2023-10-05 01:24:42 UTC My parents are always fighting and I can’t take it anymore. Everyday my dad is fighting everyone and is always yelling at me, I can’t do it anymore I literally want to kill myself he physical abuse me mentally abuses me and my brothers aswell and my mom is always trying to help us but always my dad becomes the rage monster he is and starts yelling. I can’t do it anymore I wanna just kill myself I feel like that’s the only way to end this never ending labyrinth of hell.
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I feel you. Its such a rotten and horrible place to be in. I was in that position at one point. My step dad would always find something to scream at me for and tell me how much of a fuck up I am.
That situation is such a challenging thing to go through because of how trapped you feel.
I recommend to start recording these interactions. Audio or video recordings work and start compiling evidence of the abuse. Take photos of your bruises and marks. Once you have enough evidence go to the police.
I wish you the best man, truly.
I don’t want my dad to go to jail cause his a loving dad until he rages and he only physically abuses me very rarely, I just want them to at least stop yelling.
No man. Any physical abuse is 100% fucking unacceptable. I used to think the same thing because sometimes he would bring home a pop tart. But it doesn’t excuse any of it. Not a single bit.
What he does isn’t any form of love. It’s toxic, abusive.
Think about it. What he is doing is making you suicidal. You’re having suicidal thoughts because of him. I did too. Your mother and your father should be the best they can to you. Any mother and father should.
Well I don’t think anyone wants to see any of there parents go to jail unless they actually want to, and I don’t I understand some of his stress because my autistic brother rages a lot but all I want them to do is just stop fighting.
Does your father understand what autism is? Like actually?
Yeah he has it to, but my brother has really bad austim, he can’t speak and he doesn’t understand stuff.
If your father is also autistic then he should know that yelling only makes things worse.
And I also have austim but not as bad.
And my dad only gets his rage from my brother cause he rages and my brother will beat the shit out of me mom and my older brother
Yeah that’s a tough situation to be in. Have you tried communicating how you feel to your dad? If so how did he react?
He did and he understood and I also understand he’s trying to just make sure we don’t grow up like he did cause when he grew up he met lots of bad people and his just wants us to be disciplined so we can make the right choices and I understand that.
That’s not justification, what he is doing is not right, you shouldn’t understand it, it isn’t right and he is at fault. Do not let him make you think he is justified in his abuse, it isn’t okay. It’s never okay. He is making you feel suicidal and physically harming you, that is not a parent’s a job. It isn’t love what he is doing.
I unfortunately don’t have much advice but just know what he is doing is NOT right. Thoughts is going to be much better at helping and communicating with you then I, but just don’t forget it isn’t your fault, it isn’t right, and the abuse is not love. It is toxicity and assault.
Well said.
That’s justification for his bullshit. My step-dad said the same thing.
Your dad yelling and screaming at your and occasionally hitting you is NOT okay.
Lemme phrase this clearly.
He should NEVER put his hands on you in a malicious way. Punching, slapping, shoving is not acceptable.
its a hard journey to go through, i had to put up with similar stuff but im telling you that you can get through this, its gonna get better for you i promise you, its going to be okay man, trust me
stuff like this might be hard, but after the hard stuff comes the easy stuff, thats how its been for me
you do the heavy lifting and then you get to rest, thats how id put it
we all are here for you, and you will get through this