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    NtheDrone, aka Charlie 2026-07-05 18:38:26 UTC

    well, it kinda was a mixed bag.
    I learned that my dad thinks im not enby because apparently “genitals are gendered” in his eyes.
    as far as i can tell, he also seems to be scared of me being this way because he thinks i’m almost always going to end up in a bad crowd because of this, wether it be disgusting bigotry or all of the gay people hes met being insane (which btw is not going to mean all gay people are crazy)
    so simply a blend of misinformation and fear.
    what am i going to do to fix this..???

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    • Im probably not the best to ask on this, but you should just prove to him you’ll be fine. Instead of reasoning with someone who is already convinced on their beliefs, show them by way of action. Continue being yourself and doing everything you’d normally do. He will eventually learn that it has nothing to do with being involved with bad people or becoming crazy.

      2026-07-05 19:05:50 UTC 5