something that really annoys me is when people go “oh, you’re depressed? Have you tried smiling more?”
I fortunately haven’t had this experience, nor am I depressed (just to clarify) but it really annoys me when I see it happen
imagine you fall and your femur snaps and the paramedics, instead of stabilizing your leg and rushing you to the hospital, say “oh, your leg is broken? have you tried walking more?”