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    Milky (but still gay)subscriberocciferuc-winner-lvl3master-noderuc-votercrusaderfeatured-lvl3 2021-09-03 13:22:10 UTC

    Gaymers
    I wanna wear girly clothes and shave and makeup but I’m not out as trans to all of my family what do I do

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    • Fuck I dont even know

      2021-09-03 13:25:15 UTC 2
    • Tell them lol
      They can’t change the fact, it’s your life dude

      2021-09-03 13:27:05 UTC 10
      • Replying to: hikariTell them lol They can’t change the fact, it’s your life dud

        I just worry they’ll be mad or something and just won’t let me and that would suck really
        It’s scary because what if they don’t like me also my Brain keeps calling me a liar so I shouldn’t tell them and I don’t even know rrly
        Life be confusing amirite

        2021-09-03 13:28:40 UTC 9
        • Replying to: Milky (but still gay)I just worry they’ll be mad or something and just won’t let

          Well if you give them hints and they question it; and you tell them, they’re gonna hit you with the “why didn’t you tell me before”

          Worst case scenario your parent are like
          Is homophobic the right word

          2021-09-03 13:36:29 UTC 11
          • Replying to: hikariWell if you give them hints and they question it; and you te

            Transphobic

            But yeah thanks

            I’ll try to tell them, my mom knows and is supportive but the rest don’t so I don’t Know
            But maybe
            I’ll just try clothes on in secrect for now I think, until I feel ready to tell people..

            2021-09-03 13:37:46 UTC 9
            • Replying to: Milky (but still gay)Transphobic But yeah thanks I’ll try to tell them, my mom

              Godspeed and good luck

              2021-09-03 13:38:47 UTC 9
            • Replying to: Milky (but still gay)Transphobic But yeah thanks I’ll try to tell them, my mom

              Mine are homophobes which I why I just keep it to myself
              It’s not the same situation as yours though, and I really hope that they all will support you and that you can be who you truly feel you are

              2021-09-03 13:40:43 UTC 8
            • Replying to: Milky (but still gay)Transphobic But yeah thanks I’ll try to tell them, my mom

              You should talk to Waycic. He’s a fem

              2021-09-03 13:55:54 UTC 6
    • I’m glad we can just openly talk about this stuff and support each other here

      2021-09-03 13:44:05 UTC 8
      • Replying to: MellowI'm glad we can just openly talk about this stuff and suppo

        Of course, considering many of the site’s members are males, it’s best we get whatever is on our mind off our chest.

        Male suicide is the highest among others so keeping a level of respect, trust and understanding is incredibly important.

        2021-09-03 14:10:44 UTC 9
    • Well your family even when they don’t seem it, are trying to do good by you and make sure you’re happy.

      If you’re still confused with who you are, think of it this way:

      Aside from the good times and where it seems so glorious and great, you also need to be able to face the controversy and the worst times, it may be fitting for some time but you need to ask yourself whether you truly want it or not. Is it and has it always been within your heart and who you are or is it because you feel weak and it’s your only turning point.

      If it is you then no matter what anyone says, there is nothing they can do against you just being who you truly are. Your family only want to see you happy, it would take some getting used to but they’d be able to accept it. For the male’s in your family it will seem weird at first but your brothers, your father, they only want to see you happy and at peace even when they don’t seem like that.

      Just be honest and really think about it, judge it rationally rather then a on-the-moment experience that you feel is right.

      Good luck in finding satisfaction with who you are.

      2021-09-03 14:03:42 UTC 5
      • Replying to: Tastylemon16Well your family even when they don’t seem it, are trying to

        Life is difficult and finding peace isn’t easy, but the more you try, the worse you face. It only makes you stronger and closer to finding what you are looking for.

        2021-09-03 14:05:05 UTC 4
      • Replying to: Tastylemon16Well your family even when they don’t seem it, are trying to

        And you say you arnt wise or smart

        2021-09-03 14:22:37 UTC 6