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Question of the day:Mentally how stable would you say you are in terms of happiness and generally how stable you are regularly?
Stable just being are you regularly okay without much need for any help mentally and of course the worse being the near complete opposite of that with a lot of attention required.








P.S: If you are unstable mentally quite often and unhappy, please seek help, nobody deserves to feel that way for long periods of time.
I’m neither tbh
On a scale would you say you’re around a 5 than?
More like a 4
That’s rough, give it time and hopefully you’ll feel better.
Hah
Yeah no
Sorry to hear that, I hope you can find peace in your mental health as you get older.
My sanity has definitely dropped a tad due to the pandemic for the last 2 years
I lost friends, and dont have any form of contact with them due to me changing to homeschool for my saftey, i have lost my extroverted tendencies and dont know how to openly communicate as well as I used to.
I feel somewhat lonely.
However, I have been relatively happy, so thats cool ig
It’s been a rough time for so many, the affects of it are nothing to be ashamed of so try not to get too worked up over what’s changed or been lost, there’s still plenty of opportunities and times to rectify or fix what’s now broken or gone.
Very stable. Very happy. Even though I don’t have contact with my school friends during the summer chilling with my family and playing video games keeps me content.
I don’t know exactly where I fall on the scale, but I’m significantly lower than I would like to be.
That sucks, I really hope you feel optimal enough soon, truly.
as stable as the twin towers on a certain september morning
Thats my birthday
Chilling honestly.
A little nervous cause within a couple months I’m legally an adult
Join the club or I suppose you will soon enough anyway.
Just don’t overthink, I’m sure countless others are in similar positions, despite how it may seem a lot of paths and doors are open for you to walk through so in many ways as scary as it seems across the majority you can always retrace your steps and go down a new road.
Good luck whatever the case
Prepare for taxes lad!
The government is waiting for you to turn 18 just for that particular reason!
Well not great since I just found out I’m gonna have to quarantine in my room for at least 5 days
Could be worse I guess
I’ll admit: I don’t actually got any IRL Friends and little Internet Friends, I’ve basically been quarantined before the pandemic ever started because of my dumb decisions, fucked up shit has happened and arguably one of the darkest times of my life so far only happened months ago (Specifically, Christmas 2021 and It lasted until January but even then, It still affects me and my family) and yet despite that, I got through all of that.
To put It simply: I am stable even with Emotional Disturbance and some massive shit that went on. I’m still eating Takis and Burgers and Pizza, still messing with my brother and sister and heck, I am now closer to my brother. We got a new cat (Her name is Wanda, I got her a month ago) and we’re watching movies left and right.
I respect that even through what you say you’ve faced you are still doing what you can to just get on with your life.
I don’t see all with what goes on for you in your life but I believe what I understand about you is all true, in which case keep doing what you’re doing.
I’ve been in similar positions and like you I have no irl friends right now nor have I for the past two or so years, maybe longer.
Every bit of positivity in me is shattered to pieces
One of my sibling just treats me like garbage. I could honestly be the happiest I’ve been in years but all it takes is one action from him and I’m depressed again
Simply, im just not doing well
I wouldn’t want to involve myself in problems you face unnecessarily but just understand that siblings are hard to get on with at times.
As time progresses however and you both aim to look for logic with things you can surely work things out.
I wish you well dude, you deserve all the best, don’t forget that.
This year has made me want to run into oncoming traffic forty times by now so not stable at all
But I’m at least doing well for now : )
I can only give you my best wishes here but I wish I could do more, just try and take whatever it is causing you pain as a way to progress and grow, I find that choosing to be more proactive with your approach to your problems can help drastically, it’s still hard at times but whether we like it or not we can only keep moving on or stay where we are.
I’m quite Mentally hidden I’d
say. Nonetheless still very stable.
Realised this is just me venting about internet & mental healthCan be seen as rude but still my personal opinion and I’m quite frankly sticking with it
I never like to express my (sad) emotions. Just like you can make people happy with fun stories, you can make them sad with your personal problems. It’s contagious. I myself find that a selfish action. It’s obviously fine if you are being asked about your mental state just like this poll. Just randomly announcing your personal problems is just an big ick to me. I could be venting about my own problems too, but everyone has their own things to deal with.
I am always very sceptical of people’s “depression” on the internet as it’s mostly always self-diagnosed. Depression has been glorified so to speak and is almost like a social-media trend. Everyone calls themselves depressed.
I know that is harsh to say, but after personally losing a loved one from diagnosed depression it pisses me off rather than feeling empathic for others. I’m trying to move on, but other people talking about similar events just make it harder to accomplish that which leads to anger. Never been the guy to help people on the internet and never will/can be.
My advice would be: “Get yourself together twat”. Atleast this is what motivates me.
Funny thing is that it’s mostly the same type of people calling themselves depressed or very sad. There’s a pattern.
Sorry for the vent. It’s 04:35 allow the frustration.
I’d allow it at any time, I agree with you on this.
Depression and mental problems need to be addressed at the right time, in the right way and as you say, whenever people announce their problems it seems imposing and strange. There isn’t properly a way to fix that person’s problems and if it’s a problem exclusive to their world, their reality there truly is nothing more we can do than offer our condolences.
Mentally I’d say I’m pretty in-line with how you are, closed-off but ultimately stable. I’ve been like this for what feels like since 2020 now and I’m thankful but I also feel that at times it can be a cut-off from being able to truly emotionally connect with some people, this could just be a problem on their behalf however not so much my own, either way I guess I’ll find out.
All the best to you Challas
I’m very happy! I just watched Thor: Love And Thunder with my dad. We aren’t on great terms, but we finally got to bond.
That’s awesome, I can’t wait to watch it, looks like a lot of fun.
Good for you and your dad as well, it’s always important to share time with loved ones where you can especially as a father and son.
Thanks. Thor was amazing, legit one of the best marvel movies in my opinion. It’s kinda like a big apology for Multiverse.
There is one thing that’s kinda bothering me.
Summer is almost over, with August being when I head to summer camp and then school afterwards. I want to make my mark before then. But that’s in twenty days. Less by now. It’s just very worrying.
Just take it as it comes, I think in life when you dread or overly hype something too much you receive greater affect from it or either it takes you by surprise and nothing really happens that you might’ve expected.
I like to look at situations and things I don’t necessarily like as a way to progress and learn something even if it’s small. You’ll never know what you’ll possibly gain or lose unless you try. Live your life and don’t beat yourself up if you don’t accomplish what you wanted to.
Quite happy,
I know that im super positive compared to most people and it really helps me, plus my life is a pretty normal one so no complicated or dramatic stuffs really happens
Meh.
4 out of 10.
Sorry to hear that, at least it’s not any lower
Yes, 9/10, life treats me well, only thing I’m missing in my life is a girlfriend, otherwise things go good for me and I’d say I’m a pretty non-terrible person
I and I’m sure many others can relate, maybe try and keep in mind that even if you don’t have a girlfriend yet there are plenty of opportunities for you to in the future plus as you go along you’ll have more freedom and commitment so rather than a simple relationship you can commit a bit more once the right person comes along.
Fair point good sir
I think I’m quite content with the way my life is at the moment. Of course, things could easily be better, but I’m at least a little happy with the way I feel about things compared to the past few years. I’d definitely say I’m stable too, at least I think I am. I don’t feel much going wrong with my head, besides what I think is anxiety. I’m working on being a better person to the people around me and treating them respectfully, since there’ve been times when I didn’t do that. Overall, I’d say I’m a 7/10 at most.
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