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Tastylemon16
2022-09-16 23:43:07 UTC Question of the day:How happy are you this year? Let’s say you could do anything that you think would make you happier, what would it be and why?
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Not sure if this is completely for comedic purposes but if not then I wish you well and hope you figure out how to be happier and what’s stopping you from having that.
Thanks
It isn’t entirely comedic.
Recently I kinda reached full self realization, I was healthy, doing what I loved, not caring what other people thought of me and acing school. Everything was sunny side up for me until I wondered if it would last, and what I would do next in my life.
So mild existential crisis I guess, but it has been kinda impeding a ton of shit in my life. Just always wondering if what I had would last.
The longevity of something can often be short lived but if you spend all your efforts thinking about when that time will come you won’t enjoy it.
Planning ahead for things especially career-wise etc is a good choice because you can take action to that early on, for a lot of things though you’ll learn as you go along and you should have people such as family to help you no matter how things turn.
Across the majority you’re safe in your ways, your family will be at your side, you needn’t worry about something as small as when it might end now. Life may not always be thrilling but it is very much we make of it so enjoy it while you have it and create new goals and challenges to overcome.
Wow
Where the fuck do you get your advice
From freaking Jesus
Yeah we go way back
TastyJesus16-
That just sounds wrong..
I know
I’m calling Jesus right now
Pretty happy this year. School’s been fun and all my homies are still homies. Home’s the same as always and life is looking good. Been working out and building up muscle too. Only thing I would want to change is the ability to retake a quiz and have more free time. Also ELA. It’s boring as sh&T
On a scale of 1/10 I’d be a 7.3
Only thing keeping me from a 8-10 is for some reason I’m just never into anything. Like at times I’m unhappy, but I don’t have a reason to be unhappy. Iykwim
Said it before, I’ll say it again
Not the best, but nothing I can do at this point
Thank you, the pic wasn’t working for me
Wrong
Maybe you can’t change much but something you can change is your perspective and view on the matter. I’m not going to give you a speech about so and so and be your guru.
I will say this though, out of my own experience, looking to the bad experiences as something to learn from, be grateful for other things for, enjoying things while they last, that’s the main thing. Living to learn and understand different things comes to be quite rewarding even through all the pain and hardships.
Stay strong, stay observant and keep your head up.
All the best
Damn lemon
Good advice
Good advice for good people
if you ask me, im never truly happy
I feel like there is always something holding me back no matter what I do
Also the fact that I don’t have friends ( atleast not real ones )
Join the club
As for feeling like you’re held back, pretty much everyone has that. Just do as you can and little by little build it up, a small adjustment can lead to more and from there you just keep climbing. Even if you have everything you’ve ever wanted, what then, our efforts and suffering is just as integral to our rewards if not more.
Is your dad an entitled narcissist asshole who takes the fact he he had a shitty childhood on you ?
Is your sister nice to you but is a manipulative bitch who screams at every little inconvenience she has to everybody else ?
Do you always notice someone who’s obviously a fucktard but everybody likes him ?
Do people never ever strike a conversation up with you ?
Have you ever been lied straight to your face ?
Do people always refute what you say ?
Do you have real friends that never stick with you ?
Well join my club ! And somehow, I’m not depressed !
basically what supermint said
never truly happy, no friends (not irl ones), something holding me back
i say im happy and in some cases i am but the problems at “home” just get to be a bit much
im always being pressured or “encouraged” to do more work and to practice on it and it just
its a bit too much
the only place im every truly happy is at my moms and even then, im 3/4ths happy
because i dont really get to see my friends, or my online companions, if you cant call them friends
i just wish that my grandpa wasnt such a fucking asshole
constantly yelling, unresolved anger issues, taking his anger out on all of us (my family), its just so FUCKING hard to
i cant put it into words
another thing is that i dont really have feelings
i have emotions, yeah
sadness, anger, happiness if that counts
but i dont feel
i dont have compassion, i dont have remorse
lets say i do something annoying, then say sorry
i dont fucking mean that but i TRY to mean that
but i do it again
i cant even FUCKING CRY
why am i like this
im suffering
i feel like i was made numb from all of the yelling i had to endure
all of the figurative abuse, or i guess, you could call it literal
sometimes i wish i was dead
maybe it would be better
i feel like im the cause of my grandpas yelling
i just
sometimes i take a butter knife to my leg and just kind of imprint it until theres a little red line
i never bleed but it does kind of hurt
i dont have the strength to
sorry
i didnt mean to lower the mood
No, I’m glad as a community we can recognise each other’s problems and emotions instead of being mindless losers like most of social media.
Nor should you, I can’t explain a solution to all your problems or I’ll be here until next week but what I will say is, family can be shit sometimes, the best way to overcome these problems is to speak and try and see each other’s perspective.
Your grandpa has anger issues and it’s making everyone miserable, then he can shove his issues up his ass and grow a pair, must feel good shouting at innocent undeserving people.. I don’t mean to overstep there and I still think dealing with your issues civilly is important. Just be stern in what you say and do, mean it.
You clearly have problems pent up so speak, talk to someone and maybe things can improve or at the least you can understand what each other’s problems are.
ive talked to him before about it but he doesnt understand what hes doing is wrong
i mean he probably does but
he wont even go see anyone about it
Best leave it at that then, I can’t really help much more but I wouldn’t advise hurting yourself so much over it.
Shit happens and no matter what we do sometimes it’s just the way it is, at least for a while.
thank you
this still works
It’s complicated/10
I hear you there..
Good luck whatever it may be
I’ll say this
It was initially actually fun as I did watch many movies, I went to the beach a few times and the water park, I ate real good despite some off points here and there and everything is good… until Inflation hit us at California and Gas Prices got jacked up which also happened to jack up prices for everything else somehow and sad thing is that It happened on July and now It’s somewhat boring. I am grateful that It is not too bad though so I guess It’s just a little nitpick.
Overall: Everything from January to June was fun but prices got jacked up on July and It’s boring but at least It is not worse and might get better. Why? I love eating and even though I’m not into It, NFL Season has just started and my mother is about to really spend money on Chips, Dip, Soda, Hot Dog’s, Homemade Burgers and all that and admittedly, I love eating so It might get better.
I’m gonna go eat now-
Very happy this year. Got fantastic new friends, got rid of toxic idiots, and have been doing very well in school. I see this as an absolute win!
Though something that would make me happier is to win the lottery, but I guess that isn’t limited to this year, it would make anyone happy anytime of the year on any year.
Damn just read all sad heartbroken sad people comments, now I feel bad for saying this
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I hope things get better for them
So far it isn’t the best year, parents had a divorce technically and I’m stressing over high school. Right now I’m doing fine.