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Ngl, nonchalantness is ruining individuality. I’ve come to the conclusion that you’re liked a lot more when you’re unique and more expressive with your life. Even when you’re saying something nice;
“Omg this look great!”>”cool.”
Being simple is obviously accepted at certain conditions but, would it kill you to express your feelings and risk “losing aura”?
I wouldn’t say I’m nonchalant, Ralph called me “stoic” because I don’t express much of anything no matter the situation,
Its not me purposely being unexpresive or nun, I just don’t have a big reaction to really anything, my reaction to being lifted something of tremendous value is the same as my reaction to someone telling me a funny dad joke
I kinda just smile and say “oh wow, cool” and carry on
Same with pain, now, pain is a bit od, because one day, I can have the most stone faced expression while a peace of wood is being extracted from my skin, and the next day, I could hurt myself sitting down wrong