Replying to: MABwhy are sn users such chads, seriously why can't i have som

Well I’m not actually with her I’m just saying she’s helped me through rough spots.

Anyway don’t worry about it so much, eventually you’ll find someone, maybe you haven’t yet because you’re waiting to find the one.

For me I’ve had girls hit on me a few times in the past but it didn’t feel right or something went wrong, time passed and now here I am still obsessing over the same beautiful wacko for a year now.

Work on yourself instead, aim for progression and becoming better not results. This applies on many different levels, relationship-wise, appearance-wise, the list goes on. As soon as I began exercising and trying to aim for who I wanted to be the results slowly came my way and I didn’t have to do anything bring them to me.

To summarise, make your priority be understanding what kind of person you want to be, understand your weaknesses, your strengths and work on them. Embrace fear and confront it, enhance your strengths to grow.

If you need any advice add me on Discord, the link should be in my profile.