Well now hold on, I know he may have said something hurtful but you just have to be the bigger man in these situations. It’s best to prove why what they said is bad and don’t insult them in the process. When you insult someone back they harden their heart and will be harder to convince to change, even if it is for the better. I’m still gonna try to be the kindest dude possible outside of joking to everyone that I meet, because I hate having drama and enemies.