I don’t know if I’m fully grasping what you’re meaning, but I feel like if people are referring to male and female bodies separately and interchangeably, it’s not so bad.

I don’t believe anyone really means it in a derogatory way, it’s more just that whether they say “ female features “ or “ female bodies “, it means similarly enough that the difference is very small. Of course there are aspects of feminine details and masculine details and an individual might have aspects of the two, but I feel like we should be able to comfortably mention ‘ female bodies ‘ and ‘ male bodies ‘ without having to feel like it’s derogatory.

If it genuinely makes you feel bad, I’m sorry, but I just think it might just be how you’re rationalising it based on your own interpretations. I could be wrong and I’m not trying to offend you, I respect your concerns and if it happens to arise in conversation, I’ll do what I can to be respectful of it.