• I’m so fucking sick of people always talking about giving others a second chance

    Most 2nd chances are always thrown off to the side , after the SVG drama with me and Arcturus , he left for a month

    I LITERALLY TOLD HIM , to just come back , now look what the fucker did

    It’s so easy to talk about 2nd chances when you all won’t do anything is it ? Tell me

    What have you all done to directly help Lego step ?

    2
    • Sorry, who?

      2021-03-25 15:00:52 UTC 0
    • I dont know what to think about this

      2021-03-25 15:01:31 UTC 0
    • I guess we all deserve the issues.

      But for the 2nd chances needs more meaning.

      2021-03-25 15:01:47 UTC 1
    • Here’s my fucking list

      I’ve given him so many figures of mine so he could learn and play around with them , to get better

      I gave him my base so he could explore styles

      I cheered him up when everyone here shat on the kid because his Oc was the Reddit alien , y’all mercilessly bullied him , and I was the only user there for him

      I encouraged him to stay on the site

      I helped him change his Oc to suit his ideas more

      I’ve literally gotten in dramas for him

      Every fucking time he got sad , I helped him get up

      At most only users like K-Zilla and a handful of others , have actually helped him , everyone else just says “2nd chances” , sweeps whatever he did under the fucking rug , and let it happen again and again

      2021-03-25 15:02:40 UTC 1
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄Here's my fucking list I've given him so many figures of

        you have a base :0

        2021-03-25 15:07:06 UTC 3
    • I want to change but I can’t because of u distracting my dumbass

      2021-03-25 15:04:36 UTC 3
      • Replying to: that alien dudeI want to change but I can't because of u distracting my du

        That’s not an excuse. You choose not to change cause you don’t give a shit about changing. You don’t care because you get away with everything, and you realize that. Gigan isn’t distracting you, that’s just a lame excuse to shift the blame off you.

        2021-03-25 15:09:48 UTC 7
      • Replying to: that alien dudeI want to change but I can't because of u distracting my du

        You cannot keep focusing on Gigan if you think he’s distracting you. Although he shouldn’t be because you keep talking about him meanwhile he barely ever communicates with you.

        You need to work on yourself at this moment.

        2021-03-25 15:17:59 UTC 2
    • 6 minutes old and it already has 7 comments lol. also let’s make out

      2021-03-25 15:06:15 UTC 3
    • Look

      Let’s put it simple

      Everyone I’ve fucking bullied , Arcturus , Conor , Lego Step , BabySharkie , Masked Boi , Magi-Crusier , etc

      If you are one of the people that scolded me , and told me to give them 2nd chances

      What

      The

      Fuck

      Have y’all done to help them

      2021-03-25 15:06:47 UTC 1
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄Look Let's put it simple Everyone I've fucking bullied

        The only way to stop this endless cycle of drama , is advise

        Just like everything else in life

        What true , good , fucking advice have y’all given these folks ?

        2021-03-25 15:07:27 UTC 1
        • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄The only way to stop this endless cycle of drama , is advise

          I don’t like getting myself involved with drama, but I did try helping conor that one time when he made a pedo joke or something. I tend to stay out of these situations though.

          2021-03-25 15:11:10 UTC 2
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄Look Let's put it simple Everyone I've fucking bullied

        Im going to be honest with you and say i’ve done nothing really.

        I’ve been focusing on other things other than lego, and eventually forgot about him.

        But since i have nothing to do on stick nodes right now, this could be the time.

        But im questioning, how is the right way to advise when you aren’t helping him yourself?

        You are irritated with him yet you don’t try to fix it aswell.

        2021-03-25 15:19:50 UTC 0
        • Replying to: ColloIm going to be honest with you and say i've done nothing re

          That’s my point

          We all focus on other stuff , yet even a bit of help would change people , I know I’m not the best when it comes to helping people , but almost no one else tries to

          2021-03-25 15:29:23 UTC 2
          • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄That's my point We all focus on other stuff , yet even a b

            I understand.

            2021-03-25 15:30:56 UTC 0
    • The way I see it none of us are perfect and end up judging each other pretty harshly.

      The more mature users jump to the trend and before you know it, the whole site is against a user.

      I think we all deserve a chance, for example here are some people who have changed because we have let them:

      – Skele-freak, he had a kill group but has now deleted it and moved past that stage.

      – You, Gigan, you used to be crazy dude with the sheer ‘geyness’, insults and weird behaviour, you’re much more refined now, there’s a limit to how you approach the ‘gey’.

      – Myself, back when the Minecraft server was around I was a whinny brat, self-gratification took over and I was quite bitter and weird, i’m not perfect now but at least I know my flaws.

      The list goes on, we all experience change and deciding who we are can be hard, as much you’ve given Invader a chance, he’s still trying, he doesn’t want things to be this way and one day I see it fitting that he’d change.

      Robert used to be considered a nuisance, until now we come to appreciate him and we’ve given him some room to grow.

      To sum it up, please calm down, you aren’t perfect yourself as none of us are and he’s still growing up and understanding how this site works, we have weird traditions here along with weird behavioural patterns and they can be a hard concept to grasp.

      Solution: leave him be, critique and correct him were necessary with etiquette and a level of understanding and respect.

      2021-03-25 15:18:29 UTC 9
      • Replying to: Tastylemon16The way I see it none of us are perfect and end up judging e

        Gigan, I respect you sincerely but quite honestly you’re wrong and being way too harsh, if we collectively help the newer, younger users to grow rather than mock and antagonise them, the site can be a better place.

        That incentive doesn’t just apply to you, but this entire site, it’s time we start respecting each other and trying to understand each other, we can’t do that when we’re constantly mocking, insulting and antagonising each other.

        P.S: Excuse the wall of text.

        2021-03-25 15:20:28 UTC 10
      • Replying to: Tastylemon16The way I see it none of us are perfect and end up judging e

        > i’m not perfect now but at least I know my flaws.

        Mate the fuck you talking about? You’re perfection incarnate

        2021-03-25 15:26:32 UTC 8
        • Replying to: Esquecido > i’m not perfect now but at least I know my flaws. Mat

          True lol

          2021-03-25 15:31:40 UTC 2
        • Replying to: Esquecido > i’m not perfect now but at least I know my flaws. Mat

          Thank you but I assure you I have flaws.

          2021-03-25 15:39:21 UTC 2
          • Replying to: Tastylemon16Thank you but I assure you I have flaws.

            Don’t down yourself like this

            You’re peak SN user

            2021-03-25 15:40:55 UTC 3
            • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄Don't down yourself like this You're peak SN user

              How so?

              What differentiates me from other stick nodes users?

              I don’t say this because I hate myself and am incapable of appreciating my own efforts, i’m just curious to see why you think me so perfect.

              2021-03-25 15:43:11 UTC 2
              • Replying to: Tastylemon16How so? What differentiates me from other stick nodes users

                Real life skills of yours such as speech and writing are the best this site shows

                You’re figure skills are unparalleled and useful , other users might have cool flashy figures but you are well rounded and skilled

                And you’re the most level headed user , even more then people like Bullet , Ralph , etc , who tho are adults , still kinda peak out a it if you know what I mean

                2021-03-25 15:47:22 UTC 3
                • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄Real life skills of yours such as speech and writing are the

                  I understand, that’s very nice of you Gigan.

                  I see what you mean with the ‘level headedness’ part.

                  2021-03-25 15:50:31 UTC 2
                  • Replying to: Tastylemon16I understand, that’s very nice of you Gigan. I see what you

                    lmao @ what this sub-thread turned into because i agree

                    2021-03-25 18:52:43 UTC 2
                    • Profile picture of 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄
                      [removed] · 5 years, 2 months ago
                      Replying to: Ralph (Developer)lmao @ what this sub-thread turned into because i agree [content under review]
                      2021-03-25 20:34:48 UTC 0
      • Replying to: Tastylemon16The way I see it none of us are perfect and end up judging e

        I know I’m not perfect

        My argument isn’t “don’t give new dudes a chance” , nor that I’m perfect , I know I am the farthest user here from it

        My argument is

        When people want others to get 2nd chances , they almost never do anything to directly help them

        2021-03-25 15:28:22 UTC 3
        • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄I know I'm not perfect My argument isn't "don't give ne

          Ah, in which case you’re right, it’s usually a palmed off thing.

          Perhaps some sort of help group may be ideal, hard to know how to approach it however as there are already so many and it’s hard to know who you can truly listen to and trust.

          I’ll see how things go and if things are still horrendous then I will do what I can, for now though, the wait.

          2021-03-25 15:41:38 UTC 3
    • Nothing. I’ve also never gave him a second chance, I just watch as people do give him them, and don’t engage. I’m just genuinely surprised there’s still drama about him every now and then. Then again I’ve been off and on in the community so I don’t have knowledge.

      2021-03-25 15:20:40 UTC 2
    • Sometimes I feel like I’m too nice to most people, I’ve been trying to be franker with others and my friends alike. The results are varying.

      2021-03-25 15:24:36 UTC 6
      • Replying to: 🦇🎃K-ZILLA🎃🦇 (Doing Commissions Now)Sometimes I feel like I'm too nice to most people, I've be

        You are

        I know people should tell me a few words , in reality a assload

        But you’re one of the most helpful users here , most of us including me don’t do much , or we give up on people early on

        2021-03-25 15:34:17 UTC 0
    • For people wanting to join in

      My argument is on how users rarely get true aid

      Even on a simple animation , most helpful users tends to be the admins , and a handful of users

      Post-Drama situations rarely change further outcomes due to people making “truce” rather then giving someone help

      2021-03-25 15:31:31 UTC 1
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄For people wanting to join in My argument is on how users

        i’m gonna start some drama! fuck you!

        2021-03-25 15:35:29 UTC 1
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄For people wanting to join in My argument is on how users

        This is definitely present when it comes to new users. Some users will demean them for almost no reason, and make fun of their skills, or how they act, instead of helping them at all. I’m sure i’m hypocritical in this situation, because I’m sure I’ve done it myself. If we want this community to grow people gotta stop doing that. Myself included.

        2021-03-25 15:47:38 UTC 2
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄For people wanting to join in My argument is on how users

        im not sure of the overall context of this entire thread but i get the gist

        but for what you said:

        My argument is on how users rarely get true aid

        Even on a simple animation

        i think it has a lot to do with how the user(s) present themselves and their animation, and I’ve been pointing this out to them recently actually, both here and on the SN subreddit/FB etc

        just posting the animation, or just posting something and being “is this good” isn’t a good way to present your content

        it doesn’t really open up communication, rather, if at the very least they should say “how can I improve this, I’m trying to go for a more realistic combo etc…” because now its easier for people to leave a quick comment, as they’ve been directly prompted with a question

        some users are very helpful and often can lend some advice real quick without this direct prompt, as you mentioned

        others just post a quick “lol” or something to acknowledge they saw the content, and then some people just comment “gey” probably for the same reason ( >_______> )

        anyway
        i dont really know how this ties into the whole thread so im gonna go back to getting angry at coding math

        2021-03-25 18:59:35 UTC 3
        • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)im not sure of the overall context of this entire thread but

          Die

          2021-03-25 20:35:01 UTC 1
        • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)im not sure of the overall context of this entire thread but

          The animation thingie was more of an example

          But stuff like when users do ask for criticism , they get a lot of good or bad , which isn’t a bad thing but like if they do need help and just get told somethings bad , where do you go from there

          It’s clear that you don’t know what to fix if you don’t know what to , if someone says something is off but doesn’t say anything , that’s a underlying problem

          This stems to dramas

          Besides the usually “stay away from each other” or “be nice” , there’s little to no criticism to go off

          There’s not much from the majority , even if 1 use writes a bible for someone to go off of

          A protest is more convincing if there’s more people , then if someone leaves a giant speech , it’s more notable , human nature counts on how many heads there are , not how good they are

          2021-03-25 21:10:37 UTC 0