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    Jed 2025-09-15 22:57:27 UTC

    Friends are sometimes a hassle to have.

    Just blocked by a friend for no reason that I’m aware of, I thought it was because of these jokes and it’s likely I’ll never know.

    I **hate** the fact nobody’s truthful with me and don’t tell me what sets them off. Especially when I offer and support the idea that hey, you, you don’t like what I am doing? Then I won’t do it here.

    But if you hate it and stood silence, then why do you grasp the idea of being a victim?

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    • I’ve known him for 4 years, I am somewhat hurt.

      And I had to let my thoughts here, I’ll never know if I was in the wrong and I wish I know what I did wrong as to fix my mistakes, I am a mere man.

      2025-09-15 22:58:29 UTC 2
    • I hope you feel better man, it always sucks to have a friend leave for no reason, I’ve been through it too.

      2025-09-15 23:06:52 UTC 2
    • Man that’s horrible

      If your “friend” can disconnect or erase you that easily and quickly, then that wasnt a friend. That was someone who either got annoyed for no good reason, or got what they wanted from you and saw no good reason to stick around.
      But you said you knew em for 4 years, so that is really complicated. Maybe he just had something really bad happen and needs some time away and didn’t articulate it? All I can think of

      2025-09-15 23:13:55 UTC 2
      • Replying to: 💀HØŁŁEY-ĴØŁŁY-FƯЯЯŸ-1997ÇƘ1500💀Man that's horrible If your "friend" can disconnect or

        I hope so.
        It’s just so… sudden from them.

        I’ll bare responsibility if I did anything wrong, but I’ll never know what I did wrong if everyone stays silent about my mistake.

        I believe there must be boundaries, I’m still confused because I didn’t try heavy jokes with him.

        2025-09-15 23:19:40 UTC 2
        • Replying to: JedI hope so. It's just so... sudden from them. I'll bare r

          That’s what’s so important about communication

          No one communicates well anymore. Not talking about how people talk (that’s a whoopee nother can of worms) I’m talking about stuff like this. Someone does something, someone else doesn’t like that’s, and they just leave. And the other person doesn’t know what they did wrong because the mf didn’t COMMUNICATE THE ISSUE

          It’s probably why divorce rates in the U.S. are so high rn. Because 1, people don’t communicate, and 2, even when they do communicate, most people are just like “nah im right you’re wrong, im leaving you”

          2025-09-15 23:23:03 UTC 2
          • Replying to: 💀HØŁŁEY-ĴØŁŁY-FƯЯЯŸ-1997ÇƘ1500💀That's what's so important about communication No one co

            It’s probably why divorce rates in the U.S. are so high rn. Because 1, people don’t communicate, and 2, even when they do communicate, most people are just like “nah im right you’re wrong, im leaving you”

            This, this is absolutely so true. I’ve seen a lot of friendship, relationshio, and even family structure all crumble due to no communication.

            And the worse part is, they think people will notice it for them, they won’t. That’s not their job.

            2025-09-15 23:49:39 UTC 2
    • oh well

      i got blocked by like 5+ friends in one night (all of them i’ve known for more than three years) just because one of them (who i called my best friend, and who was 15 at the time 😪) was dating another friend in the group, who allegedly at the time was 18..?

      i found out because they made it way too obvious on their profiles and their statuses (this took place on discord btw), and then uhh one night the two blocked me and then probably lied to the other friends to get them to block me as well

      oh yeah, i witnessed every single friend blocking me at night since i was awake working 🫠

      anyways that’s story time for u children /j

      2025-09-15 23:37:09 UTC 3
      • Replying to: bluzzyoh well i got blocked by like 5+ friends in one night (all

        Damn, if that’s the case.
        Then they were never your friends, talk about being shameless.

        It’s exactly how my good friend here said. It’s all about communication .

        2025-09-15 23:48:14 UTC 1