no but really, i have a lot of experience with WP,I was a WP theme developer for years before I got into gamedev and then SN

so when i needed a website for my app i just threw together a WordPress site so I can make posts about new updates

then I used some free file-manager plugin to upload files people send me for download (stickfigures)

then it grew and I added more plugins stuff to comment on…
then eventually added Buddypress for this /activity/ section…

and then things got out of hand as I did many small and major hacks and tweaks to get things customized and more efficient over the years

now im stuck with a pile of spaghetti-code screaming server hardware that is overloaded and pushed beyond its limits that runs off of magic and fairy dust and i don’t know what to do now