if you get into a argument how well do you handle it?

For me, I usually play calm and mess with them, try joking around a little and see if it’ll calm things down between them and me. Because usually whenever I try arguing with a more aggressive way back i sometimes say something quite offensive to them which escalates the drama. plus I’m not good at arguing with people. If they come up with a good insult on me I’ll make the worlds lamest comeback lmao. I know this by experience, every argument ive ever been in, most of them is me being the damn clown or a average cringey 9 yr old spouting out nonsense lmfao its hella humiliating.