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    Tastylemon16occifermoderatorsubscriberfeatured-lvl3master-noderuc-votercrusaderuc-winner-lvl4 2021-02-14 02:27:17 UTC

    Why is it that after 10 or so months of trying to be with an individual, I still am not with said individual?

    I mean, things between us aren’t too bad lately, I feel like i’m starting to make a connection but it may be completely formal, some evidence says no, some yes.

    I dislike this very much, I could be living it up with them watching JJBA together etc but instead i’m here living an obsolete life.

    I can’t be direct and ‘Oh I LoVe YoU UwU’ because then if I am to be rejected which I 80% would be then I lose all connection and relationship with this person, having to rectify things as best I can.

    Am sad lemon but I need to be strong and keep trying.

    Stay strong ladies and gents.

    Quick suggestion:

    Some of you could be each others valentines for a day, it’s not the same but it’s better than being alone.

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    • Any ways to go about finessing my love interest?

      2021-02-14 02:27:46 UTC 1
    • I will pray for you as i prayed for Gigan.

      2021-02-14 02:38:02 UTC 0
    • Well, there’s gotta be a day you’re gonna have to tell her, but for now I guess just stay close I guess, I wish for your success

      2021-02-14 03:07:53 UTC 0
      • Replying to: RefrigeratorWell, there’s gotta be a day you’re gonna have to tell her,

        Of course although now isn’t the time.

        I have all I could need to do so:
        – confidence
        – reason
        – charm

        Although it still wouldn’t work as she only knows so much about me and asking her out would only push her away rather than bring her closer.

        I can’t explain to anyone myself and her’s relationship because if I do no good would come from it, I wish I could but I know it would do no good.

        2021-02-14 12:39:42 UTC 0
    • Man, if shes gonna completely ghost you if you ask her out and she declines, she isn’t worth it in the first place. Just ask her out, directly. Don’t be like, weird about it, just ask and the worst that can happen is she rejects you, and you move on, with the best that can happen being years and years of happiness with the person you love.

      2021-02-14 03:25:30 UTC 3
    • what i did was i asked her if she liked me. (im not an expert tho)

      2021-02-14 04:08:13 UTC 0
    • I shall take this suggestion.
      @demonbot Segs. Now.

      But Lemon, hopefully everything goes well. Relationships involving friends is a double edged sword, if they reject you, it could damage your relationship, on the other hand, it could improve it. Best of luck.

      2021-02-14 04:09:02 UTC 1
      • Replying to: 🦋 Sen! 🦋I shall take this suggestion. @demonbot Segs. Now. But Lemo

        I’m not even necessarily friends with them, it’s more so our type of relationship isn’t your standard relationship, I shouldn’t go into too much detail and I won’t although choosing to ask them out wouldn’t be realistic.

        I need to give it time.

        2021-02-14 12:31:53 UTC 1