Why would that make me feel anymore inclined to accept when I still do not know you well enough nor consider you a friend.

Don’t mistake this, I don’t dislike you but I can’t say I like you either, to me you are just another user. It sounds rough but when you really think about it I can’t have anyone join and to trust anyone, especially those I know nothing about.

This isn’t an invitation for you to try and convince me, this is a notification to let you know I won’t be anytime soon, probably ever.

I apologise, hopefully you can understand what I mean here.