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    Tellure Lennetsubscribermega-noderuc-winner-lvl2featured-lvl1 2024-06-17 01:59:48 UTC

    Venting, Scroll past if uninterested or triggered

    Sooo…. I fucking broke down crying today.
    We were going to get dinner for Father’s Day, and I wore my favorite sweater vest ((Teh red and white one YALL have seen me wear before.)). My aunt..Says the colors I wear don’t go together at all and that I look horrible ((I was wearing the same outfit as when I came back to sn)). She then proceeded to RIP OFF my sweater over my head and THROW it in the trash can. When my brother pointed out she was being mean and he’d be upset too ((I was sobbing at this point and she was getting onto me for crying over it)) she pulled the “So you’re making me the bad guy?” Card and pulled the sweater out of the trash and threw it at me. She kept calling it “atrocious” and “hideous” and saying I don’t look good in it. She also hates it because it’s so worn out (I love worn out sweaters. It shows they’ve been lived in and loved.). My aunt asked me why I like it so much..and well, I responded with “Because it makes me happy” and she said that that makes “no fucking sense”. She stormed off to her room as I changed once again. Im back home after dinner, and she hasn’t apologized, let alone said a word about it, I’m still hurt by it, and wonder if I should ever wear that sweater again. It hurts. I love that sweater so much…Im crying rn even thinking over the situation.

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    • look, i can’t possibly come up with another perspective here that would make your aunt’s actions make sense and be acceptable

      she’s obviously just an asshole

      so ask yourself why the fact some particular person is an asshole affects you so emotionally?

      what i’m saying is it’d be much worse if it was someone you respected or had admiration for

      just go “damn” and be glad you don’t have to live with that person

      2024-06-17 02:37:09 UTC 18
      • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)look, i can't possibly come up with another perspective her

        I will say this, if you meet an asshole on the internet you can brush dat shyat off like nothing.

        A family member has a much more significant impact on your life & mental health. Most decide to make their impact positive.. and some are plain a**holes.

        So the whole “damn” thing can only apply so much.

        2024-06-17 03:26:19 UTC 11
      • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)look, i can't possibly come up with another perspective her

        …I do live with her-
        My aunt is my adoptive mother 😭
        Thanks tho, Ralph. It makes me so happy to have all this support from you guys.
        I love you all, you’re like an online family to me, dramas and all 💜

        2024-06-17 11:45:59 UTC 5
    • Omfg JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE THE SAME OPINION ON SOMETHING, DOESN’T MEAN YOU GET TO INVALIDATE THEIRS AND.. and..

      Sorry, got a little heated there.

      2024-06-17 03:23:58 UTC 4
      • Replying to: ReinaOmfg JUST BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE THE SAME OPINION ON SOMETH

        I’m so sorry about your sweater loss btw.

        2024-06-17 03:24:17 UTC 5
        • Replying to: ReinaI'm so sorry about your sweater loss btw.

          Don’t worry, I’ve got it back
          Wearing it rn because she’s asleep

          2024-06-17 11:18:46 UTC 3
    • ur outfit is great! i just think that u should tuck in the bottom of the orange-yellow shirt but ithink its awesome! white goes with like everything, light or dark
      idk what shes talking about
      neutral colors from white-black and anything inbetween like grey go with everything

      2024-06-17 03:26:29 UTC 9
      • Replying to: SillyWizard01ur outfit is great! i just think that u should tuck in the b

        Plus, I like the way the red looks with the orange! I dunno what she sees so wrong with it. And Jean jackets kinda go with everything. Thank ya!

        2024-06-17 11:45:11 UTC 4
        • Replying to: Tellure LennetPlus, I like the way the red looks with the orange! I dunno

          yeah i love color theory! i dont have very many colored clothes, a lot of its black with a bit of color but if i had more colored clothes id go CRAZY with matching

          2024-06-17 14:20:40 UTC 5
          • Replying to: SillyWizard01yeah i love color theory! i dont have very many colored clot

            Frrr! My aunt is insistent that the colors I wear don’t go together at all and I look like a crazy hobo
            Like…dude. I’m the artist here. I know my color matches, thank you.
            ((She also says purple and green don’t look good together which is just stupid- like.. MY WALLS ARE PURPLE AND GREEN- DOES MY ROOM THAT YOU PAINTED FOR ME NOT FIT YOUR TASTE, MA’AM???))

            2024-06-17 14:25:14 UTC 5
    • I feel you

      You look awesome with your sweater and as Ralph said

      There’s no way in hell she’s right , let alone justified

      It’s hard , especially at a younger age but always be steadfast and confident in your style

      If it makes you extremely happy and , legitimately harms no one , there’s no argument as to why it would be bad

      2024-06-17 04:05:29 UTC 10
      • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄I feel you You look awesome with your sweater and as Ralph

        Legitimately
        Wear it as much as you want

        Not saying to do so now , but if people are this negative
        It is best to distance yourself and close them off if need be , I don’t think that’s necessarily all too possible in your situation but let her know that “input” like that is far from appreciated or welcomed

        2024-06-17 04:07:55 UTC 10
        • Replying to: 🎄🏳️‍⚧️René (F)🏳️‍⚧️🎄Legitimately Wear it as much as you want Not saying to do

          Thank you so much, Gigan./gen I’ll try, but there’s a high chance she’ll not “appreciate” my input

          2024-06-17 11:43:06 UTC 5
    • Damn. I’m sorry to hear that, is the sweater damaged?

      2024-06-17 04:08:39 UTC 9
    • Ngl, im not gonna roast your aunt or anything because I don’t know her, but that’s not cool. She should have respected your choice in clothing, personally I think your fit looks dope. Also the getting physical was unnecessary.

      I rate your fit 10 out of 10 g.

      2024-06-17 05:26:58 UTC 3
      • Replying to: 💀HØŁŁEY-ĴØŁŁY-FƯЯЯŸ-1997ÇƘ1500💀Ngl, im not gonna roast your aunt or anything because I don

        Thank you, Chevy!

        2024-06-17 11:48:18 UTC 5
    • The drip is great and in no circumstances is ripping clothes of someone aganist their will is justified. Let alone verbally abusing them.

      Yes. Yes the aunt is a bad guy in this situation, your parents should go talk with her.

      2024-06-17 05:44:15 UTC 7
      • Replying to: arcionekThe drip is great and in no circumstances is ripping clothes

        Technically she is my parent because I’m adopted 😭
        I haven’t seen my bio parents since I was 6 lol

        2024-06-17 11:20:20 UTC 5
        • Replying to: Tellure LennetTechnically she is my parent because I’m adopted 😭

          Oof my bad

          2024-06-17 19:08:20 UTC 1
    • What a sour bitch, don’t listen to people like that. Do what you wish with your fits because everyone has a unique sense of style. Everything like criticism might as well just be the opinion of others, really.

      2024-06-17 10:12:43 UTC 6
      • Replying to: 🦇🎃K-ZILLA🎃🦇 (Doing Commissions Now)What a sour bitch, don’t listen to people like that. Do what

        Thing is, I live with her.
        And if what I wear doesn’t match her taste she says she “doesn’t want to be seen with me” and I have to change or stay home

        2024-06-17 11:23:18 UTC 7
    • now that’s rude and also I’m sorry for saying “ ew”

      2024-06-17 14:06:52 UTC 0
      • Replying to: The Fake Psychonow that’s rude and also I’m sorry for saying “ ew”

        While I think she more than appreciates you “being nice”

        Refrain from talking to her man

        You’re no different than her aunt , you stomped down on her happiness
        Don’t act like you’re above that type of action
        Tellure doesn’t need someone else that’s judgemental

        2024-06-17 14:47:53 UTC 7
    • Over a sweater is wild,
      F that bitch

      2024-06-17 14:30:04 UTC 6
    • Your aunt deserves pain
      Sweaters are cool

      2024-06-17 16:26:22 UTC 6