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    J3remy13360 2018-11-02 09:54:22 UTC

    Everyone, i want to share something

    I am currently on my hardest time in my life right now, bullies and school pressure, the usual. But they are nothing to what just happened today

    My parents broke up today and made me choose: go with my dad or mom. I chose to go with my dad and it’s the hardest choice I’ve ever done, and it wasn’t helping that this is all happening while my grandfather is in a coma due to an accident. I just want to let all of this out somehow and share it because I feel like my heart is blowing up already. It’sok if no one reads this, I’m not demanding attention

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    • man that’s tough dude, sorry to hear that, a perfect example of “when it rains, it pours”

      but this is about as bad as you’re gonna feel, it will just get easier and better here on as things normalize a bit

      I don’t know your situation but I can safely assume both your parents care for you so don’t think anything there has changed though I think they shouldn’t really have made you “choose” if that’s how it went down

      but what happened happened, just stay strong yo

      2018-11-02 10:42:26 UTC 3
      • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)man that's tough dude, sorry to hear that, a perfect exampl

        I know, I’ve always been easy to get along with. But they treat me like they know me enough when they’re just looking at my cover

        2018-11-02 11:30:46 UTC 2
      • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)man that's tough dude, sorry to hear that, a perfect exampl

        By “choose” they meant who I will follow

        2018-11-02 11:42:39 UTC 2
    • I don’t even know you but I’m sorry that happened and I am gonna show support, it will get better.

      2018-11-02 11:02:38 UTC 2
      • Replying to: Mouser64I don’t even know you but I’m sorry that happened and I am g

        Here, I’ll tell you an overview about me:
        1. My name is Jeremy Alberto
        2. I suffer from a case of Clinical Depression
        3. I get picked on because of my facial mannerisms(nose and eye movements)
        4. I was abused by my uncle (He didn’t feed me at some nights and only gave me 20 Pesos= less than 1 Dollar)
        5. I don’t fight back because I am empathetic, which is why they pick on me
        6. I’m nice to people, which is why I wonder why they treat me like this

        2018-11-02 11:40:20 UTC 3
        • Replying to: J3remy13360Here, I'll tell you an overview about me: 1. My name is Je

          Filipino aye?
          Some of you might not understand this but…

          Malalagpasan Mo Rin yan… Stay Strong bro

          2018-11-02 13:14:43 UTC 1
          • Replying to: SlashFilipino aye? Some of you might not understand this but...

            Or Español… Because you said Peso and… Nvm…

            But stay strong!

            2018-11-02 13:15:59 UTC 1
          • Replying to: SlashFilipino aye? Some of you might not understand this but...

            I get it, salamat

            2018-11-02 14:00:47 UTC 1
            • Replying to: J3remy13360I get it, salamat

              Google translator?

              xD… Btw… Slap those problems away from yo’ face… You can do dis

              2018-11-02 14:02:45 UTC 1
      • Replying to: Mouser64I don’t even know you but I’m sorry that happened and I am g

        I’m very nice and empathetic, but why do they still treat me like this?

        2018-11-02 11:41:20 UTC 2
        • Replying to: J3remy13360I'm very nice and empathetic, but why do they still treat m

          everybody gets bullied at some points, even me *audible gasp*, some more than others but it all just depends on how you deal with it, don’t let it get to you so much where it actually interferes with your life even outside of school

          I know that school feels like your whole world right now but trust me what I tell you when I say after a few years, after you’re done with it – it just doesn’t matter, it feels like a different lifetime, you’ll just have memories and be like “wow that was a shtty time lol”

          2018-11-02 11:58:45 UTC 3
          • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)everybody gets bullied at some points, even me *audible gasp

            Hehe yeah…

            2018-11-02 12:04:05 UTC 2
          • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)everybody gets bullied at some points, even me *audible gasp

            I completely agree. By the way, (this may not work for you and it might make your situation worse, but this works for me) I generally just agree with what they pick on me about. Example: Bully: Are you gay or something?
            Me: Yes, I am (but I’m completely straight), or
            Bully: YOU STUPID IDIOT!!!
            Me: Yes, did you call me?

            I hope that helps you, and I pray that everything gets better.

            2018-11-02 12:41:47 UTC 0
            • Replying to: JumpsH00psI completely agree. By the way, (this may not work for you a

              Nah that won’t work, my classmates are a bit, well, neolithic when it comes to jokes

              2018-11-02 12:47:35 UTC 1
              • Replying to: J3remy13360Nah that won't work, my classmates are a bit, well, neolith

                Ah, gotcha. Well I’ll keep you in my prayers, hang in there bud.😊

                2018-11-02 12:49:34 UTC 0
          • Replying to: Ralph (Developer)everybody gets bullied at some points, even me *audible gasp

            By “bullied” he means he’s parents gave him $100 except of $101

            2018-11-02 12:55:18 UTC 1
            • Replying to: SnipperBy "bullied" he means he's parents gave him $100 except o

              Ok to elaborate: 1 dollar ($)= 50Php (pesos) in my place so… 20 can only buy me 1 orange juice and a biscuit for the DAY

              2018-11-02 14:02:49 UTC 1
        • Replying to: J3remy13360I'm very nice and empathetic, but why do they still treat m

          People are dicks dude, not everyone can be nice.

          2018-11-03 02:29:02 UTC 1
    • I understand what youre going through, at least to some degree, and despite how cliche and bullshît it sounds, things do get better. Im not the best at giving people emotional support, but i thought id at least try.
      (Insert irrelevant joke here)

      2018-11-02 12:10:55 UTC 3
    • Hear me here my guy
      I have the exact same situation
      My parents splited up, and I can spend time with both, but very little
      I was never abused or idk
      I am called “fatty” at school, but, I’m empathetic too. What I remember one day my empatheticness got mad
      I punched a guy in his face and tackled him to the floor. Then I threw myself over him and started puching him
      You need to control your empathicness. If they bully you, hit them in the face and idk, say something like this:
      “That Hurt, huh?”
      And If we are talking about pesos, I know you are american, south or center america
      Te tengo amigo 😀

      2018-11-02 12:59:32 UTC 1
      • Replying to: SnipperHear me here my guy I have the exact same situation My paren

        I’m South Eastern Asian (Filipino) I can be mean at times and my insults can be over the top but in the end my empathy still wins

        2018-11-02 14:04:49 UTC 1
        • Replying to: J3remy13360I'm South Eastern Asian (Filipino) I can be mean at times a

          It had happened to me
          But free yourself, that will help u a lot

          2018-11-02 16:04:57 UTC 1
    • i cannot climb in the hole with you as i havent experienced this but i will give my condolences none the less

      2018-11-02 13:59:46 UTC 2
      • Replying to: Ramoxfire V2i cannot climb in the hole with you as i havent experienced

        Eh, it’s ok, we have differences

        2018-11-02 14:05:22 UTC 1
    • Hey man, it’s been a week since you posted this so I just wanted to check on you, see how you’re doing. 😊

      2018-11-09 14:49:28 UTC 0
      • Replying to: JumpsH00psHey man, it's been a week since you posted this so I just w

        Oh hey, I’m ok currently but everything else is not. My family isn’t gonna get fixed and my Grandpa who is in a Coma might not wake anymore sooooo… yeah. Mixed feelings right now.

        2018-11-09 20:22:32 UTC 1
        • Replying to: J3remy13360Oh hey, I'm ok currently but everything else is not. My fam

          Well, I’m glad to hear that you’re doing BETTER, but I wish that there was something I could do to help. I don’t mean to offend you or anything, just curious, do you believe in Jesus and God (don’t worry, I’m not going to cause trouble)?

          2018-11-09 21:29:43 UTC 0
          • Replying to: JumpsH00psWell, I'm glad to hear that you're doing BETTER, but I wis

            50-50 actually. I believe but doubt as well. And plese don’t bother trying to help, I’m fine, I feel cringy and bad when people help me

            2018-11-10 10:35:45 UTC 1
            • Replying to: J3remy1336050-50 actually. I believe but doubt as well. And plese don'

              Okay, I’ll try my best not to help you (as weird as that is for me to say, LOL), but just to let you know, I have a group on here (the Stick Nodes site) called ‘”Pest” control’ that I post a Bible scripture per day, if you want to join the group you’re welcome to.

              2018-11-10 10:43:40 UTC 0
              • Replying to: JumpsH00psOkay, I'll try my best not to help you (as weird as that is

                Okay, tnx man I appreciate it 🙂

                2018-11-10 18:42:35 UTC 1