Arguments.
The thing that divides friendships and the thing that causes drama.
An argument is when two sides don’t agree and try having the other side agree with them by telling them about whatever it is that they should agree to. Arguments can either change someone’s opinion or have it stay the same. However, there’s a difference between a toxic argument and a clean argument. A toxic argument is where insults are used when it is not needed and at the end of the argument, both sides haven’t changed their opinion about the topic but their opinion about the other side turns into the bad side. These are the worst kind of arguments, they do nothing but cause drama and nothing ever gets resolved. Clean arguments is where no insults are used and someone’s opinion changes in a good way, they realize that maybe that they were wrong and accept it. In fact, a clean argument can be fun, you tell what is so good about your side or whatever it is while the other person tells you what is good about theirs. I want more clean arguments because they don’t lead into drama and they don’t cause toxic feelings between both sides. Why can’t we have more clean arguments? Because it’s hard to remain calm and peaceful during an argument. I have tried to remain peaceful and calm for as long as possible, I bottled up anger inside of me. I accidentally snapped at someone I shouldn’t have. So, I know it’s hard but it’s worth it. I think we should lean to more clean arguments than toxic arguments.