No. I actually drew lines when people decided to spam it or call someone they knew was black that word. (Those situations normally had them telling me, it’s all good.)

Fact is, it can be used sarcastically. That is my point.
Not saying I would even use it sarcastically. So there’s really nothing to argue.

And no, the N word was not used as much as you think. Over the course of 4 years people would say it here and there and normally accompany it with a trollface.
Slurs are not just around the hard R. They go outside the hard R. There’s things more pressing to deal with than a word like that.
When are not involved in something, you cannot comment on how it changed over the years.
That server actually ironed itself out quite quick and for the last few months there was this thing called development.

If you don’t think it should be used at all regardless of context and that you can say fuck and shit, and some slurs freely but not the N word, that is fine.

Censorship of peoples humor is another can of worms and this is not the place to open it.