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Venting, Scroll past if uninterested or triggered
Sooo…. I fucking broke down crying today.
We were going to get dinner for Father’s Day, and I wore my favorite sweater vest ((Teh red and white one YALL have seen me wear before.)). My aunt..Says the colors I wear don’t go together at all and that I look horrible ((I was wearing the same outfit as when I came back to sn)). She then proceeded to RIP OFF my sweater over my head and THROW it in the trash can. When my brother pointed out she was being mean and he’d be upset too ((I was sobbing at this point and she was getting onto me for crying over it)) she pulled the “So you’re making me the bad guy?” Card and pulled the sweater out of the trash and threw it at me. She kept calling it “atrocious” and “hideous” and saying I don’t look good in it. She also hates it because it’s so worn out (I love worn out sweaters. It shows they’ve been lived in and loved.). My aunt asked me why I like it so much..and well, I responded with “Because it makes me happy” and she said that that makes “no fucking sense”. She stormed off to her room as I changed once again. Im back home after dinner, and she hasn’t apologized, let alone said a word about it, I’m still hurt by it, and wonder if I should ever wear that sweater again. It hurts. I love that sweater so much…Im crying rn even thinking over the situation.





look, i can’t possibly come up with another perspective here that would make your aunt’s actions make sense and be acceptable
she’s obviously just an asshole
so ask yourself why the fact some particular person is an asshole affects you so emotionally?
what i’m saying is it’d be much worse if it was someone you respected or had admiration for
just go “damn” and be glad you don’t have to live with that person
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I will say this, if you meet an asshole on the internet you can brush dat shyat off like nothing.
A family member has a much more significant impact on your life & mental health. Most decide to make their impact positive.. and some are plain a**holes.
So the whole “damn” thing can only apply so much.
d.. DAYEM STRAIGHT.
…I do live with her-
My aunt is my adoptive mother 😭
Thanks tho, Ralph. It makes me so happy to have all this support from you guys.
I love you all, you’re like an online family to me, dramas and all 💜
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Omfg JUST BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE THE SAME OPINION ON SOMETHING, DOESN’T MEAN YOU GET TO INVALIDATE THEIRS AND.. and..
Sorry, got a little heated there.
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I’m so sorry about your sweater loss btw.
Don’t worry, I’ve got it back
Wearing it rn because she’s asleep
ur outfit is great! i just think that u should tuck in the bottom of the orange-yellow shirt but ithink its awesome! white goes with like everything, light or dark
idk what shes talking about
neutral colors from white-black and anything inbetween like grey go with everything
Plus, I like the way the red looks with the orange! I dunno what she sees so wrong with it. And Jean jackets kinda go with everything. Thank ya!
yeah i love color theory! i dont have very many colored clothes, a lot of its black with a bit of color but if i had more colored clothes id go CRAZY with matching
Frrr! My aunt is insistent that the colors I wear don’t go together at all and I look like a crazy hobo
Like…dude. I’m the artist here. I know my color matches, thank you.
((She also says purple and green don’t look good together which is just stupid- like.. MY WALLS ARE PURPLE AND GREEN- DOES MY ROOM THAT YOU PAINTED FOR ME NOT FIT YOUR TASTE, MA’AM???))
The colors go amazing on you
(I’m a little colorblind)
But I know they do 😆
purple and green
like the prowler from marvel comics
evangelion
real
I feel you
You look awesome with your sweater and as Ralph said
There’s no way in hell she’s right , let alone justified
It’s hard , especially at a younger age but always be steadfast and confident in your style
If it makes you extremely happy and , legitimately harms no one , there’s no argument as to why it would be bad
Legitimately
Wear it as much as you want
Not saying to do so now , but if people are this negative
It is best to distance yourself and close them off if need be , I don’t think that’s necessarily all too possible in your situation but let her know that “input” like that is far from appreciated or welcomed
Thank you so much, Gigan./gen I’ll try, but there’s a high chance she’ll not “appreciate” my input
Damn. I’m sorry to hear that, is the sweater damaged?
No, it’s fine, thankfully
Ngl, im not gonna roast your aunt or anything because I don’t know her, but that’s not cool. She should have respected your choice in clothing, personally I think your fit looks dope. Also the getting physical was unnecessary.
I rate your fit 10 out of 10 g.
Thank you, Chevy!
The drip is great and in no circumstances is ripping clothes of someone aganist their will is justified. Let alone verbally abusing them.
Yes. Yes the aunt is a bad guy in this situation, your parents should go talk with her.
Technically she is my parent because I’m adopted 😭
I haven’t seen my bio parents since I was 6 lol
Oof my bad
What a sour bitch, don’t listen to people like that. Do what you wish with your fits because everyone has a unique sense of style. Everything like criticism might as well just be the opinion of others, really.
Thing is, I live with her.
And if what I wear doesn’t match her taste she says she “doesn’t want to be seen with me” and I have to change or stay home
now that’s rude and also I’m sorry for saying “ ew”
While I think she more than appreciates you “being nice”
Refrain from talking to her man
You’re no different than her aunt , you stomped down on her happiness
Don’t act like you’re above that type of action
Tellure doesn’t need someone else that’s judgemental
Over a sweater is wild,
F that bitch
Your aunt deserves pain
Sweaters are cool