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CookieInTheFace
2018-08-20 21:18:25 UTC Well my Dad and I had a talk about what he would do if he moved out, I’m not sure if he hinted he might leave to live in his own. I am not too suprised as they have stayed on the opposite sides of the house for a while. I don’t want to choose between them (them meaning mom and dad) because they are equal to me. Without my dad I won’t ever smell his heavenly juicy steaks cooking on the stove, I won’t have anyone to say goodbye to before he goes to his firefighting places, and I won’t have anyone to bear hug. Without my mom I won’t have anyone to help me with my homework, I don’t have anyone to laugh with, I won’t have anyone to help with anything.
Idk what to do, you guys probably don’t care.
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Damn
I don’t know
I’ll call in a few folk who could help
Once again I have no choice but to stand by
@chimdio
@epitaph200
@spierrwolf
@explosivebullet
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It’s scares me how many people i know who’s parents have divorced and out of selflessness I won’t let another fall victim.
I don’t want you to decide, nor plan for that event, imwant you to prevent it.
My following plan will work much better if you can have other family members tag along.
Basically, you need to think real hard and come up with something to say to both of them. Make sure they’re in the same room, close to eachother, do not let them see eachother distantly, make sure they are comfortable.
I want you to over hours of discussion to explain to them all the problems. Explain how it affects you (and your others if there are some), how it will affect you and also how it’ll affect them. Make them question their choices with questions like “would you really want that?” Or “why would tou let that happen”. You need to first bring them down so you can bring them up, make them guilty so that they seek your council.
Under no circumstances must you give in to “this is too grown up for you” or “you don’t understand”, deny that s**t and continue because they have no right to completely change the course of your life with their personal issue.
Once you have (over a long time) managed to make them feel guilty and that they’ve hurt you in some way, tell them how to fix things. Tell them to put their troubles aside, perceiver and their relationship will only grow stronger, what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.
Tell them to spend more time alone together, maybe walking the family pet or going out for a meal, get them to care for eachother.
To round off, tell them that if thry truly care not only for eachother but also their own child/children, they would stick together and fix things.
Do not be afraid to cry or show fear, welcome it. Show a struggle to hold back tears as it will not only show you’re distraught by the tragedy but you’re determined to fix it.
Anyway, that’s all i have, i hope it will help in your desperate situation.
And remember, DO NOT START OR LET AND ARGUMENT START OR EVERYTHING GOES WRONG.
I almost cried just reading that. You is the wisdom boi
Me and my bro literally just had a talk, he said that our Dad Nevermind makes a decision this serious, and when he does, he don’t change his mind.
Just think in memes
That’d fresh your mind
Look in some Ugandan Knuckles stuff in youtube or GTA:SA
That clears my mind
I’m not in the mood for dead memes right now.
*throws*
No problem
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Kill the self
No u
I love this meme
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I hate, no, DESPISE anything related to modern rap, it’s an insult to music
THIS IS AN INSULT TO MODERN RAP!
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I still hate it. I’d rather just straight up ridicule
Big Smoke will hit you with his baseball bat
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CJ?
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHH
Y E S
YOU HAVE THE MEMES INSIDE U
UNLEASH THEMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
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O O O O H – Y E A H
I S – G O I N G – T O –
B E – G R E E E A A T –
M O V I E
W O W
I – A M – G O I N G – T O
– S E E – IT
My daily dosis of memes:
waxy gang
O O H
No
Just Chicken
Listen to gummo by 6ix 9ine,I think I spelled that right
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No, they’re all the same. S**ty beat, overused rapid metal click sound, droning rap, might as well be talking, look homeless, only care about money, see women as objects, are obsessed with themselves.
Wanna know how much I don’t care, I didn’t give a s**t about XXX tentaclefa**ot’s death. Hated his music, bad influence, glad he’s gone.
Yeah I just like a rap, that’s like a “Motivational rap” or something, It sounds good
U NO LIKE
U NO MONSTER
Yeah must of these song are just swearing and objectifying woman,smh
I like this song
Cause I play it with Call of Duty
And I get 26 kills or more in a 6mns match and I’m rank 14
Rip
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If i ever play music while playing, i always use Ratchet and Clank, Pokemon or DOOM as they improve my performance. There’s no stupid lyrics, there’s no s**ty beat, just quality sound that makes you feel like a badass.
I like the background music
;-;
While you hate his music, you should still show respect to the dead.
No u
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Hitler, boom, f**k you
My Project Landfall RHG was actually created by Hitler,
So Bgon thut
I like rock and roll
Okay hitlers understandable for all I care someone could take a piss on his grave.
How dare you compare Hitler to X, at least Hitler was a hero because he did kill Hitler
Mate
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Well then bows the time to break that rule
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Don’t let him decide your life
I don’t know how to even speak to him without tearing up now.
If you tear up, he will know that its a really big problem to u
*cri*
*+2000 points*
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Good, you want to tear up. Show raw emotions like anger, fear, sadness. All these are strong emotions and your dad and/or mum will be affected by this, no parent wants to hurt their child. Use your ability as a child to your advantage, hit em’ where it hurts
I don’t want to cause even more trouble
Is showing your emotions trouble?
No its not
So show our emotions
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Do not accept this
things till it’s too late and only then
Here your psicologist
You dont need to choose
It’s not your responsability as person
It’s like me choosing what to eat
No option will be the correct one
Until your parents decide, you dont worry about it
I have my parents separed since 5 years, and it is a common thing for me
Just, stand up and say “I cant decide, I’m sorry”
If they dont understand you, just keep trying, like me convincing you to come back, and you did come back!
I mean, they will understand as parents
Your life wont be the same, I know. I really miss my dad or mum sometimes and things changed like crazy
But not everytime things were bad
I never saw my dad
I now see him all tuesdays all day!
Isn’t that amazing?
I never had time to be with my mom
Now I laugh and be with her a lot!
Things change, someone’s for bad, and some others for good
Like Big Smoke says:
“Same things make us laugh, and make us cry”
Just, talk with them. Try to put an idea to make them see how you are feeling
Snipper, out
*rips*
My dad doesn’t really have a chance to hang out with us. Now with him gone I could lose that chance for the rest of my life. Atleast I can still talk to him through text, but it just won’t be the same.
I have been chatting with my only cousin by Whatsapp
He’s in SPAIN
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY TIME IS SPAIN TO ARGENTINA?!
ITS THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD!
It sucks, its not the same
They left when I was 3, I AM 17 NOW
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY SUFFERING THAT IS?
Its just kinda… weird
So, talk to your dad if you have time
Tell him how you feel
AND DONT FORGET THE BIG SMOKE PHRASE
Atleast you got used to it sooner and at a least stressful time. 8th grade was so much easier than 9th.
Im not used to it…
I still think in how we played…
I DIDNT GO OVER IT YET! ;_;
I want to visit him but I have no time, either them. Not just my cousin, my aunt and uncle too
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I’ve had a family that falls out every now and then and can get VERY vocal sometimes but they are still loyal as they brave through things, Cookie cannot lose his family just because he “shouldn’t interfere”
Proving my point, you make serious stuff worse. Get out, you’ll only depress him. Cookie wants his family and we have the chance to stop it and you’re really gonna give up, COWARD!
I don’t even like Cookie but I’m still going to try my damnedest to stop this while i can!
ok sorry
Im just trying to make things up…
You could just say it in a good way
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This is serious, I’m not gonna be nice and cheery when someone’s family life is at risk, I don’t want anything similar to what happened to Tenebrus to happen to anyone else
Do you think I didnt cried Tenebruses death?
I even made a fig for it
I sent it and Ralph rejected it cause then Tenebrus showed up
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Tenebrus is alive
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Yunno’, i saved him, remember
I know
But I still feel sad
I was so sad when I heard of it
Then, he showed up again
I almost jumped of joy
@jack
BRING UR EMOTIONAL STUFF
Nah come on, pretty sure Jack ain’t wanna deal with my shet
He deals with everything, He can help you with this sh*
If he does do to leave, let him now how you feel about him leaving, parents hate seeing their kids sad over seperation of family, letting them know might change their mind. If worse comes to worse and he still will leave, ask if theres any chance you can contact him while he’s away, worst thing to come out of this is to not see him again.
Might be the best advice yet
I’ve dealt with it before so its best I share what I did.
Divorce is something normal on some kids life
This decision wont change that much
Your parents getting separated doesn’t mean you won’t see one again
You can see them by switching every week, that’s what most parents accord in these situations
I’m sure your parents love you enough to plan a day or moment you can be together
I dunno man
Dude it’s a divorce one parent can’t get you away from the person you love
It’s actually something obligatory to give children the same amount of time with both parents
That’d be Illegal
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Well then you’re evil
*evil laugh intensifies*
But I don’t want to have one parent at a time. I want them both at the same time
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Then stop resisting the chance to act while you can. You have one chance, ignore it and this happens for real, YOU CAN STOP IT.
ACT
I AM A PUSSY DOE! I can’t express how I feel to my parents. Very rarely have I had the guts to do so my whole life!
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Listen. Answer my question very simply, do you want your parents to stay together!?
Yes!
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THEN ACT. Shut upmabout being a coward and do this or you’ll hate yourself for the rest of your life! You have one f**king chance and you’re gonna just watch? Be a man, get up, go to them and fix this because I can’t for you dammit!
Sorry to tell you
Nobody except your parents can change that
If they don’t feel the same some love for each other then it needs to happen
It’s not your fault and you shouldn’t feel bad, you can’t put your parents together just by trying and thinking you have a chance, they don’t feel the same anymore
This is also helpful
With time the relation gives a rest and gets better until the point your parents can be friends or even more for the best
The best you can do is accept and overpass this bad moment the best way possible
This is a big part about growing, knowing not everything is done with effort and tears but with patience and maturity
Okie. Thanks Jack.
I’m legit getting teary-eyed. I’ve never experienced divorce before. Keep in mind, I care, though.
I have
Somethings change in good
But other ones change in B A D
Yikes
As a child of divorce I’m going to be brutally honest. Yes Epitaph gave good advice, and so did mostly everyone. But if your parents want a divorce it’s going to be really hard to stop them. And even if they don’t get divorced there will be that feeling that you can sense off of your parents, that awkward vibe will be even worse than a divorce.
1) sorry man, uh oh.
2) I know.
3) I understand.
4) oh no.
i’ll be praying for you cookie
Thank you my friend
LOL XD
…. cool.