• Ok, folks. Technically, I’m not supposed to be doing this, but I would like to update you guys on the situation.

    THE SITUATION:
    My mother is thinking. She’s been thinking hard and thinking deep. She’s significantly more trusting than my dad right now, though she is still mad at me for lying to her, perhaps rightfully so.
    My father is scared. He’s scared for my safety and for my privacy. He’s seen grooming firsthand and he’s terrified that it’ll happen to me.

    THE PLAN:
    Firstly, I need to wait. My mother is still upset. According to her, she needs time to get past her emotions and come to a logical conclusion. It may take days, it may take weeks, it may take months. But we will talk about it. She promised, and she almost never makes promises.
    As I said, my father is mostly concerned for my safety.
    Speaking of my father, @tastylemon16. He’d like to speak with you. I’m not joking. He wants your number. You don’t have to give me your number, obviously, though I would appreciate it.
    However, if he’d be willing, I think it’d be better if my father speaks to @ralph, given that he’s the oldest and most trustworthy person on this site. I know it’s a lot to ask, but I need your help, Ralph. You’re the only adult here, and I’m not sure he’ll listen to anyone else.

    So, that’s the situation. I may or may not see you guys again. If I am permanently banned, than I’ll be sure to give you guys a formal goodbye. But, for now, peace out.

    See you later.

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    • Good luck brother, hope it all turns out well.

      2024-04-22 19:31:04 UTC 9
    • You know it’s funny because your parents were probably roaming around outside unsupervised when they were your age but now you can’t even talk to people online like wtf.,.

      2024-04-22 19:33:48 UTC 14
    • God’s speed bro

      2024-04-22 19:35:33 UTC 8
    • how are you gonna get groomed when this site is full of 10yr olds and 13yr olds

      sticknodes website it full of kids but dont do discord

      2024-04-22 19:59:55 UTC 8
    • Wish you best of luck

      2024-04-22 22:17:01 UTC 2
    • Sorry but I’m going to have to decline, I don’t see what talking to your dad over the phone is going to do? He’ll hear my voice and now what, know I’m an adult by my voice? It doesn’t make much sense to me.

      Like you said speaking to Ralph would be the better option but emailing would work better, a direct email from the developer is about as official as it gets before it just becomes personal.

      I see where your parents and coming from and I’m not going to act like I know what’s best for you but I can and will say that in terms of risk, you are only at risk as much as you set yourself to be, if you accept direct messages from people over Discord or elsewhere and nobody else can see that’s the opportunity to be groomed etc, to be groomed publicly on a website full of people, mods, admins, etc is not going to happen and if it did people would intervene. There is a strict rule against grooming and pedophilia, we’ve seen that with Epitaph, with Mrk and so on.

      Good luck to you, hopefully your parents can ease some stresses by the time this is all over, it can be worrying, but we’ll figure this all out.

      2024-04-22 22:27:56 UTC 5
    • Purely from a legal standpoint it’s not a good idea. I cannot vouch for your safety, its similar to your parents talking to a crossing guard but then you get ran smooth the shit over by a UPS truck the next day. It’s completely possible – albeit unlikely.

      What exactly specifically are they worried about? SN/SN.com or the internet in general? What if you give them a link/video to a parental system they can install that tracks you and reports activity to the parents? It sucks and is for karens and soccer moms that think the boogeyman is around every corner and have no sense of privacy respect but, with all due respect, that sounds like your parents.

      Would that ease their mind? Of course you’d have to find such software and a decent tl;dr video explaining it so your parents will feel safe using it. This is just one idea though.

      The alternative is to just “be a kid” so to speak and ̶s̶n̶e̶a̶k̶ ̶o̶u̶t̶ ̶a̶f̶t̶e̶r̶ ̶d̶a̶r̶k̶ do it behind their back. It’s easy enough by simply just clearing your browser history when you’re done. Really no way to know what you’ve been doing unless it’s a very technical person snooping through your stuff.

      2024-04-23 22:38:50 UTC 0
    • Hope you’ve been doing ok man

      “Gigan” here
      Lots changed but still hoping for the best for you man , stay safe

      2025-10-15 22:16:27 UTC 0
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  • Folks, I have news. I told my parents about my repeated usage of this site without their permission. Needless to say, they were not happy.

    My father is deeply concerned for my safety and my mother is ticked that I disobeyed her. This isn’t my first strike, so to speak, so I’m in hot water. I don’t know if I’ll see you guys again.

    I’m not gonna lie, man. I’m scared. I’m scared I’m gonna lose some of my closest friends. But, I can try to stay positive. I followed Ralph’s advice and tried my best not to be a smartass, and I think they’re considering my words.

    Best case scenario, I’ll see you guys in a few weeks. Worst case scenario, this is goodbye.

    See you later, I guess.

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  • Replying to comment by: Stickguywhy in the world does your mom hate stick nodes

    srsly tho, any ideas on how I can convince her?

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  • Replying to comment by: Stickguywhy in the world does your mom hate stick nodes

    She hates social media. She’s convinced I’m gonna get groomed or something. (Also she hates that I used it without asking her first)

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  • My mom is considering letting me use this site again, so I may have to come clean about having been using it. I’m kinda scared. She can be really unreasonable, especially when it comes to social media and disobeying her. How can I convince her to let me stay on Sticknodes?

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    • why in the world does your mom hate stick nodes

      2024-04-16 23:37:20 UTC 9
      • Replying to: Stickguywhy in the world does your mom hate stick nodes

        She hates social media. She’s convinced I’m gonna get groomed or something. (Also she hates that I used it without asking her first)

        2024-04-16 23:37:50 UTC 9
        • Replying to: mel. (INACTIVE)She hates social media. She's convinced I'm gonna get groo

          by that logic, you mom should also make sure you never leave the house, you could get hit by a car or falling anvil

          she’s unreasonable, so you have to be patient and not a smartass (tough, i know), and be logical in what you say

          in the end, she’s worried about your safety, your best course of action is to acknowledge her concerns and try to give her the reassurance you will be responsible, report questionable things to her, and generally be smart

          2024-04-16 23:55:36 UTC 12
      • Replying to: Stickguywhy in the world does your mom hate stick nodes

        srsly tho, any ideas on how I can convince her?

        2024-04-16 23:38:56 UTC 8
        • Replying to: mel. (INACTIVE)srsly tho, any ideas on how I can convince her?

          Maybe tell her that this website doesn’t have some sort of private chat feature like discord

          2024-04-16 23:40:29 UTC 9
    • I would say run the right kind of points by her.

      – The site is mainly Teenagers and kids

      – It has various measures and protective things in place to avoid seeing or receiving the wrong things

      – Moderation team that monitor the site on a regular basis keeping it safe and well.. moderated.

      – The site is mainly for posting animations and stickfigures and getting feedback on it, you can pair this with the proof of a submission page for stickfigures

      – Maybe allow a compromise, let her check through some stuff and see that it’s tame, this one is a bit risky so save as a last resort.

      Just do what you can to try and pretty things up, it’s not like this stuff is really incorrect anyway, it’s pretty spot-on, not perfectly but we have a pretty tame site for what it’s worth.

      2024-04-17 00:00:20 UTC 11
    • I secretly am on it all the time, I’m in the same boat as you with hiding it and her thinking all social media is chock-full of groomers like I’m stupid.

      2024-04-17 02:48:02 UTC 1
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  • Replying to comment by: GlagglefanThe difference between the anti-furry cult and the anti-furr

    imagine hating people for minding their own business lmao

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  • @tastylemon16
    This probably sounds silly given that I’m a stranger on the internet who uses an eldritch mass of eyeballs to represent themselves speaking to another random stranger on the internet who uses a sharply dressed lemon to represent themselves, but I’m really thankful for you. For being a mentor. For being a friend.

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    • Aw, thank you bro, nice to hear I had a positive impact somewhere with you.

      People like yourself and others that I have come to grow fond of, it makes investing to this place feel worth while, I didn’t always expect I’d amount to much or be one people may look up to or at the least, respect or appreciate so to come so far as to reading stuff like this, it means a lot.

      Thank you Mel

      2024-04-16 00:16:09 UTC 17
    • this is too wholesome

      2024-04-16 00:38:30 UTC 1
  • Replying to comment by: SillyWizard01my mom is making me learn cursive is cursive actually used i

    I use cursive as a flex.

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  • I think the hardest part of the creative process is accepting that the first version is gonna be terrible.

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  • Replying to comment by: [JamNodes]Erm what the sigma

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  • Replying to comment by: Chinoguri cap https://youtu.be/zl_jAzmWOWw?si=L-fUvsr4B2Ib4EF

    the delivery of “kill 2” gets me every time

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  • Replying to comment by: Cheese BiscuitYou heard ‘em
    56474_0-17781100-1712964595_d6fa

    so do i grow a new one or…

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